Back in Jesus’ time, when Herod heard from the Magi that a ‘king’ had been born in Bethlehem, he asked the Magi to come back and tell him where this child was so that he could worship him as well. This coming from a man who killed his wife and children, and anyone around him who might want a slice of his power. The Magi were warned, and went home by another route. The same angel that warned them warned Joseph in a dream to flee to Egypt to protect the child. After their escape, Herod had every child in Bethlehem under 2 years old killed.
Today’s version of the holy innocents is similar. Those in power seem to be afraid. Of innocent babies. These babies did not ask to be created. They had no choice in the matter. In many, many cases, ‘mom’ and ‘dad’ were just having recreational sex. In some cases, they forgot to use contraception, in some cases they remembered, but the technology failed them. This wass inconvenient, so they get rid of the inconvenience. In other cases, a baby was expected from the loving act of a couple, but they found out that the baby was *gasp* not perfect…’it’ had Down’s Syndrome. Or Autism, or a deformed heart. Again, this was inconvenient, so they got rid of the inconvenience. In a few cases, the baby was conceived by some evil act-rape, incest, etc. Again, an inconvenience to all involved (except the child).
In every case, the aborted child is an inconvenience. In the first instance, mom and dad aren’t married/don’t earn a good living/made a mistake/whatever their excuse. In the second case, it’s tough to take care of a handicapped person. In the third case, it’s also tough-the mother would have memories of the incident for the rest of their life.
In the first case, which is the vast majority of abortions today, while it is true that a baby is a life-changing event, shouldn’t the parents consider that the life-changing event began with a little fun on a date? The event that changed their lives was having sex in the first place, not the conception. In the second case, again, we can say that any conception is a life-changing event, and the added fact that the child will not have a ‘normal’ life doesn’t change that. Also, in the third case, a life-changing event.
The birth of one child 2000 years ago changed the world.
Let’s take the three simple examples backwards, and see how the birth of one child might change the lives of those that caused that life to come into being. In case #3, how does aborting the child help a rape or incest victim ‘forget’ or get over the event that caused the birth? It doesn’t. That event will be with the victim regardless. How could the existence of the child help change the life of the perpetrator and victim? In vast ways. Couldn’t one child’s birth help someone understand what a violent act such as rape does, and possibly change that person’s heart? Or someone elses? Seeing the reality might put a stop to much of the crime.
In the second example, isn’t there good possibility that the child could grow to be someone important? Steven Hawking was/is a brilliant man. Tom Sullivan, blind from birth is an excellent musician. Chris Diedo (http://news.bbc.co.uk/local/kent/hi/people_and_places/arts_and_culture/newsid_8295000/8295570.stm) is a Down’s Syndrome adult and an avid photographer. I am sure that the parents of these, and all handicapped children have extraordinary challenges raising their children. Aside from the fact that we all have some defect, (whether it manifests at birth or later in life, all children have challenges, and all children will teach those around them something about how to live life. Aborting children because we can technically know that the child is handicapped might just be killing the next Mozart or Einstein.
In the first case, while I think that we should always be aware that any heterosexual sex is possibly procreative (think of Abraham and Sarah, or Elizabeth in the Bible), aborting a product of recreational sex is wrong. First of all, there’s adoption, if you really, really don’t want the child. There’s those that do, and some will gladly help pay your maternity costs. But if we had some law to make it tougher to just flush it down the garbage disposal, wouldn’t people have sex less willingly, and take the power out of the act of sex?
Again, the life of every child has the potential to be earth-changing. St. Catherine of Siena was the last of more than 20 children. That child in your womb right now may be the only opportunity you have to bear children. Please, consider these things in your heart before you decide to abort your baby. God has a plan for each and every one of them.